Try as I might, I can’t see what is important in life! For most people just keeping themselves alive is the most important thing of all. For others it is family, love, ambition, job, power, money, desire for all things, religious belief, honesty, fairness, justice, caring for another, being what you want to be. But how many of us really get the chance to do what is important to us?
Yes, there are some who have a partner who loves them and who they love, but there are also many lonely people who would be glad of someone to talk to, a friend, never mind the intimacy of a lover.
Some people do have children, often unplanned, but whilst they often love them dearly are they convinced that this is what they really wanted in life? What about those who can’t have children? Are they any the less important?
Many people seek a job which gives them power, money, and have the ambition to go for it. But once they have it are they truly happy? Some will be because it is exactly what they sought, but if they also wanted a family, or a partner, has this want also interfered in their ambition to gain power, money and a job that gives them what they sought? Could it be that to have the ambitious job they have to give up the idea of the family/partner? Could it be there is a conflict of interests in a person’s mind at this point?
We seem to think we can have all that we desire. But we can’t.
To gain what we desire we must focus only on that. We may come close to gaining all that we seek, but to do that we have pass over responsibilities towards partner, family, and other aspects that make life worth living, for we can only afford to focus on one thing, one main ambition, if we are to definitely succeed!
How many people can say they achieved what they set out to do without losing sight of their family, their other life interests, those who also have a vested interest in us? To gain that powerful job with all its money and status might mean more time spent away from home that at home leaving very little time for the partner or family member waiting there for even a glimpse of ambitious worker. They may be sitting at home restless, counting the minutes until the worker’s return. Is that any life for the person at home?
Could it be that the person at home is only there for the small amount of spare time you have from your demanding job? Is this right?
Oh, but the hard work brings in money which is disseminated to the family, partner. Is money what they seek, or could it be you they really want? Is money, status, material goods, power, the only things that matter in this world?
Time will tell, if you can find the time to even think about it – and them!